Sunday, 26 July 2015

Does everyone count? Really?

The latest report from the Church of England Research and Statistics Department makes for interesting reading.

There has been a strong reaction to the report from the Gay and Lesbian Community because there is no attempt to understand or map the extent of those in the churches whose sexual orientation is gay or lesbian.

The three cohorts measured by the survey which claims to be about mapping diversity in the churches are ethnicity, young people (children) and those with disabilities.

Apparently 35000 individual responses were returned, according to a report on the demography of the United Kingdom some 5 - 6% of the population is gay or lesbian which suggests that the Everyone Counts survey is under reporting some six to seven hundred people who if they had been asked, and if they were confident that their answers would be treated with respect might have answered yes to a question about sexual orientation.

One correspondent of mine described his being Gay as 'a gift'.

What is it about the Church of England?

When R S Thomas, the priest and poet retired he apparently took his cassock and surplice and burnt it on the beach.

I have been sorely tempted at times to follow his example.

Instead I have spent time as a Locum Chaplain in the Diocese of Europe and am now a member of the Guild of Priests at the Cathedral in Carlisle, but my disappointment in the Church remains.

Indeed as far as the local church is concerned I have become 'unchurched' and for the very good reason that the indoor critic, who is a wheelchair user, cannot physically enter any of our local church  buildings because of steps, unmade gravel paths and lack of disabled parking.

As Bill Clinton commented 'its the economy stupid' well in our case it's 'the practicalities stupid'.

I met the indoor critic in 1967 when I was a student at Salisbury Theological College and she was a student at Salisbury School of Art.

Whilst I wasn't the only heterosexual student at Salisbury in 1967 it was pretty obvious that the heterosexual population wasn't 95% either.

Which means of course that the Church of England has maintained a conspiracy of silence for the 45 years that I have been ordained and that conspiracy is reflected in the diversity research reported in Everyone Counts.

It makes it pretty clear that not everyone does count.

I was privileged to spend a semester in 1985 as a Proctor Fellow at the Episcopal Divinity School, Cambridge, Mass.

By 1985 in the States the heterosexual population in the school was indeed a minority.

I attended worship in a Church in New York where I was greeted by the woman Priest wearing a badge that announced my Church has got Aids.

But still the Church of England buried its tonsured head in the sand about issues of human sexuality and sexual orientation.

But if the Gay and Lesbian and Transgender community is excluded from the debate about diversity in the church some of the other statistics are also, in my view, questionable.

I cannot sensibly comment on the findings with regard to urban areas but the summary of findings with regard to rural areas is in my view questionable to say the least.

The report states:

35% of Churches are in rural hamlets and isolated areas.

1% of the population lives here and the average congregation includes 35 people with average age of 56 with 12% being young people and a 20% being over 75.

I have to say that I find these statistics, based on my own experience in the deanery where I live and the churches where I occasionally lead worship, to be largely unbelievable.

It could of course be that when the vicar is away and the congregation realises that I am coming to take the service that they stay home to make jam or bake cakes or go to the pub for  lunch?

But I tend to read the notices and check the service register and on the whole the two or three retirees that I meet are the same two or three who were there last week and will be there next week.

As you move from Town to Urban and Conurbation Churches so according to the report, the statistics improve and the congregations increase to an average of 100 plus.

Initially the Diversity Audit (2007) was carried out to map ethnic diversity in Diocese around the country.

When the survey was repeated last year questions were added with reference to disability and young people.

In a response to the reaction of lesbian, gay and transgender people to the omission in the survey the researcher commented:

'I am sorry for the hurt and disappointment raised by members of our congregations who feel that the lack of a question on sexual orientation meant they are not a valued part of our church'.

The offer of additional questions may not be sufficient to redress the balance or heal the hurt, I am not able to say.

Where I am personally affected however is with regard to disability which was another 'question' in the survey.

The commentary on the responses to the question identified the high proportion of 'other' as the selected response, which 'raises questions about what is missing from our understanding of the data'.

It is important to acknowledge that the congregation we tend to join when we worship (Carlisle Cathedral) makes us welcome, has ramps etc and is accessible.

It is also important to recognise that 12th Century buildings were not designed with access in mind.

But faced with a range of disabilities, many of which are exacerbated by age, it seems to me that if the church is to be inclusive then it needs to recognise what aspects of its attitudes and architecture effectively excludes people, it is not that something is missing from the churches understanding of the data, it is what is missing from its understanding of disability, especially now in the present political climate where disability hate crimes are on the increase and welfare support is being withdrawn.

I always expect better from the church and I am always disappointed.



Thursday, 23 July 2015

multi congregation ministry

Seeing necessity as opportunity is in many ways a virtue.

In the recent edition of the Retired Clergy Association Newsletter there is an article about Multi Congregation Ministry.

It makes interesting reading for a church which is plunging ever deeper, much like the Labour Party,  into an existential crisis.

Like most crises it is both a crisis of the Churches own making and not.

I have to accept my portion of responsibility, after all I was ordained in 1969 I have served as a curate, a vicar, a canon, a diocesan officer, the parishes where I served as priest are all still in existence, but all reflect contemporary reality, with ageing congregations, little or no evident renewal and in the most part linked with other parishes in groups or teams as part of multi congregation ministries.

What I did, I did conscientiously and as far as I was able, sensitively.

I broke bread and word, I visited those who were sick, I ran youth clubs and elder groups, organised bible studies, took school assemblies, ran community initiatives and with my family tried to do justice and serve the Lord.

But all through I had a sense of swimming against the tide.

As with Matthew Arnold and Dover Beach the tide was constantly ebbing.

Numbers of communicants fell steadily.

Confirmations, the great passing out parade of the Church, continued to attract members both junior and adult, but once confirmed they were rarely seen again.

Baptisms continued, as did marriages and funerals, but the sense that alternative rituals were being demanded began to grow until now, as I understand it, marriages are 'civil' hopefully both when they are celebrated and as they are inhabited, funerals are now more commonly conducted by secular ministers, two of my neighbour's died last year and the funerals were conducted by secular ministers.

But the essence of ministry over 45+ Years was steady decline as families abandoned worship for shopping or social or recreational activity on Sunday.

In retirement I find that when I am asked to preside at a Eucharist in local churches in our part of North Cumbria numbers are small and congregations are elderly.

So the question arises what can be done?

Should we follow the advice offered by a character in Ron Ferguson's tale of a Glasgow Church trying to light the Easter Candle outside on a wet and windy morning when a local character came by from a long night out to observe 'Ye'd be better off in yer f***ing beds!"

Or do we try to restart mission in our urban and rural communities or do we start imagining failure as opportunity?

Writing in the RCA Newsletter Malcom Grundy chooses the latter option.

I have been ordained longer than Malcom, by about two minutes, as we knelt next to each other at the ordinations in Sheffield Cathedral in 1969 and we were contemporaries in the Diocese for two years or so.

In his article Malcolm summarises from his book on multi congregation ministry to describe seven ways that such congregations can celebrate as Faith hubs,  Community support networks, A barometer for local opinion, Workshops for liturgy, Shapers of community identity, Springboards for development, Landscapes of transcendence.

Reading the article I was reminded of the most recent service at which I presided.

The high flowing rhetoric of Landscapes of transcendence eluded me I have to say.

This was the base metal of a failed alchemical experiment I tried, lord knows I tried, but for the life of me I could not lift the liturgy or the congregation either with word broken, I watched the words of my sermon on the beheading of John Baptist and Jesus message to John's disciples, linked with the tragedy unfolding in Syria and God's purposes for our lives, float over the heads of the two or three gathered that morning in that place; the sacrament equally failed to captivate as people duly came forward to receive I wondered that Jesus who promised to be in the midst of us seemed so signally to fail to make his presence known amongst us.

My own experience of multi congregations is that they meet when they meet in the place they call their own and rarely meet when the meeting is called for another location or setting, the ubiquitous fifth Sunday when there is a 'parish' gathering rarely gathers more than those who still see the local church as theirs.

Over time there have been many initiatives decades of renewal, evangelism, and outreach now there is to be school of leadership, the leadership of the church will be enriched as women Bishops are ordained and prelatic pomposity is retired but I somehow sense that it is going to far more than the alpha course mindset of the present Archbishop to address the existential crisis facing the church.

Malcom Grundy's seven reasons to be cheerful sound OK in principle, maybe Malcolm wants to be seen as the Ian Dury of the Church?

To paraphrase Ian Dury's great anthem to cheerfulness:

Yes, yes, yes dear
perhaps next year
the pews will fill
and just in case

William Temple, Right Reverend Shirley
Amen, Amen, Amen and Praise
Let's have a bible study, why not bring a buddy
Baptisms in the nuddy

Let's do the Hokey Cokey, fire up the incense smokie
Let's play croquet
The new vicar's a soprano, swap the organ for piano
Drum machino

Reasons to be cheerful, part un
Reasons to be cheerful, part deux
Reasons to be cheerful, part trois
Reasons to be cheerful, Trinity